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What She Really Wants
A Man's Guide: At some point in your relationship, you have looked at your partner and thought, “What do you want from me?”It’s one of the most frustrating and common experiences for men in long-term relationships. You feel like you’re doing everything you’re “supposed” to do. You work hard. You’re a good dad. You fix things around the house. You’re loyal. From your perspective, you’re holding up your end of the bargain. Yet, there’s still a disconnect...
Kimberly Mahr
Sep 28


I Don't Need Therapy; I Have Friends!
Relying on your friends for support is healthy. Using them as your primary, unpaid, and completely untrained mental health provider is not the best idea...
Kimberly Mahr
Sep 25


A Gen X Guide to Surviving the Sandwich Generation Squeeze
Welcome to the "Sandwich generation squeeze." It’s time to stop seeing your own well-being as a luxury you’ll get to after everyone else is taken care of. This is your tactical guide to surviving the squeeze, setting the boundaries that will save you, and reclaiming your own damn life from the jaws of loving obligation.
Kimberly Mahr
Sep 22


The Gen X Marriage Reboot
Gen X knows that a long-term partnership doesn't survive by accident. It survives and thrives on conscious, deliberate, and sometimes uncomfortable effort. Here's a step-by-step guide to rebooting your marriage after the kids leave.
Kimberly Mahr
Sep 11


How to Interview Your Therapist
Finding the right therapist can be daunting. This is your guide to stop being a passive client and start being a discerning consumer who finds the right fit.
Kimberly Mahr
Sep 8


Dating After Divorce for Men
For many men, the prospect of re-entering the dating world feels less like an exciting new chapter and more like being pushed out of a plane without a parachute. This is your guide to not just surviving dating after divorce, but to showing up as a stronger, more confident, and wiser version of yourself.
Kimberly Mahr
Aug 25


Therapy "Doesn't Work?"
Therapy is not a "do-to" process; it is a "do-with" process. It's an active, collaborative, and strategic endeavor. If you’ve been treating it like a confession booth, it's no wonder you haven't seen results. It’s time to stop being a passive patient and start being an active, empowered client who gets their money’s worth.
Kimberly Mahr
Aug 18


How Relationship Counseling Can Transform Your Connections
Discover how relationship counseling can help couples and individuals improve communication and resolve conflicts effectively.
Kimberly Mahr
Aug 11


So Long, Summer: Helping Your Young Adult Transition Back to College
Sending your young adult back to college is a significant transition, both for them and for you. Let's explore how to make this farewell as smooth and supportive as possible.
Kimberly Mahr
Aug 1


More Than Just a "Honey-Do" List
The "honey-do list:" Why is this considered normal? Why is the default setting in so many households that one person (usually the woman) is the Project Manager of the entire home, and the other (usually the man) is a part-time, often reluctant, employee who needs a written work order to get anything done?
Kimberly Mahr
Jul 19


Recognizing and Overcoming Self-Sabotage Behaviors
Self-sabotage refers to actions or behaviors that consciously or unconsciously prevent a person from reaching their goals. This may include procrastination, negative self-talk, or even engaging in unhealthy habits. This article will help you identify the signs and learn strategies to overcome this pattern.
Kimberly Mahr
Jul 11


The Power of "Us": Cultivating Interdependence in Your Romantic Life
Codependence is a fusion that suffocates. Hyper-independence is an isolation that starves. There is a third way; a stronger, more resilient, and infinitely more rewarding model: Interdependence.
Kimberly Mahr
Jul 8


The Importance of Setting Personal Boundaries
Setting personal boundaries is crucial for maintaining your well-being and building healthy relationships. It allows individuals to create a sense of safety, respect, and autonomy in both personal and professional areas of their lives. When you understand what boundaries are and how to apply them, you pave the way for a more fulfilling life.
Kimberly Mahr
Jun 20


Welcome Home: Navigating Your Young Adult's Return from College
Bringing your young adult home from college for the summer is a unique opportunity to reconnect and support them as they navigate this new phase of their lives. By fostering open communication, respecting their growing independence, and establishing clear expectations, you can create a summer that is enjoyable for everyone.
Kimberly Mahr
Jun 3


Summer Together: Tips for a Smooth Transition When Your College Student Returns Home
With a little proactive planning and a focus on positive interaction, you and your returning college student can navigate this summer together with more harmony than a chorus of cicadas on a warm Arizona evening.
Kimberly Mahr
May 24


The Power of "No": Understanding Boundaries and Their Impact on Well-being
In the intricate dance of human connection, boundaries act as invisible lines that define where you end and others begin.
Kimberly Mahr
May 1


Breaking Free from Avoidant Attachment
Intimacy, trust, and vulnerability can be challenging for those with an avoidant attachment style.
Kimberly Mahr
Oct 29, 2024


Overcoming Anxious Attachment
Explore ways to overcome anxious attachment.
Kimberly Mahr
Oct 22, 2024


Long Distance Relationships
in today's interconnected world, long-distance relationships (LDRs) are becoming increasingly common.
Kimberly Mahr
Oct 1, 2024


FOMO: Are You Caught in the Loop?
Let's explore what FOMO is, its psychological roots, its impact on mental health, and most importantly, how to cope.
Kimberly Mahr
Jul 22, 2024
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